A palliative patient with a strong sense of independence was able to spend his last days with dignity at home through the support for his caregivers.
Caring for a loved one during their final days is one of life’s greatest challenges. For Tan Hup Hee, this journey began when his fiercely independent 90-year-old father, Mr Tan King Poh, was diagnosed with late-stage prostate cancer. For a man who had avoided doctors his entire life, the repeated hospital visits to manage his constant pain were especially difficult. Recognising how these challenges were taking a toll on his family, Mr Tan eventually accepted the support from St Luke’s Hospital (SLH). This marked the start of a carefully managed and compassionate journey, guided by a continuity of care approach that transitioned seamlessly from Home Care Services (HCS) to the Integrated Home Health (IHH) programme and finally to inpatient care.
When Mr Tan enrolled into HCS, the team of nurses, doctors and social workers extended their care beyond the patient’s immediate needs, supporting the entire family in caring for him at home. “They were incredibly compassionate,” Hup Hee shared. As Mr Tan’s condition advanced, he transitioned smoothly into the IHH programme which provides round-the-clock support for end-of-life needs. “They guided my brother and I through pain management and prepared us for Dad’s final moments with dignity and peace.”
The team coordinated resources and provided hands-on guidance, ensuring Mr Tan’s family was emotionally and practically prepared for the end-of-life phase of Mr Tan’s care. Senior Medical Social Worker Cassandra Ang arranged for a medical bed, sourced donated consumables, and addressed administrative matters, allowing the brothers to focus on meaningful moments with their father. “The team was there for us every step f the way, ensuring we weren’t overwhelmed by the complexities of caregiving,” Hup Hee said. What could have been a challenging experience became a shared journey of love and commitment.
“Dr Ng Soon Yin was especially sensitive to our needs,” Hup Hee noted. “She explained every decision in detail, respected our concerns, and helped us process our grief in ways we didn’t expect.” Dr Ng’s empathetic approach included conversations that acknowledged their hopes and fears. Her reassurance gave the family the strength to face their father’s final moments with clarity and peace.
Reflecting on his father’s last days, Hup Hee expressed gratitude. “Dad was terrified of doctors, but the team at SLH changed everything. They treated him with respect and care, earning his trust. Enrolling him in the IHH programme was the best thing we did for him.”
As Mr Tan’s condition worsened, he spent his final days in SLH’s palliative care ward. There, the multidisciplinary team ensured his last moments were peaceful and dignified, filled with love and reassurance. For Hup Hee and his brother, the support they received transformed their caregiving journey into one of connection and cherished memories.